is a Co-Parenting Facilitator?
A Co-Parenting Facilitator acts as a “go-between” to
help divorced parents make decisions and modifications
to their regular schedules, which serve their children's
best interests, without being in direct contact with
What we do
We step in between parents to communicate effectively
where they are otherwise unable to do so, which brings
a sense of control to otherwise out of control interactions.
When agreements or arrangements are
made through a Co-Parenting Facilitator, no messages
need to be sent through your children and you don’t
have to deal directly with your ex.
Your children are allowed to enjoy the
innocence of childhood and the guilt-free relationships
that they are entitled to have with both parents.
Why we do it
Children deserve to remain as innocent as possible.
They deserve to stay out of financial discussions, custody
battles, visitation changes or any of the other logistical
issues that come out of their parents being divorced.
You don’t have to like your ex
– but your children deserve to have an open, warm
and loving relationship with both of their parents.
Anger, resentment and vengeful thinking
are normal. When things aren’t fair in your eyes,
when someone isn’t doing what you think they should
in a given situation, it is natural to want to punish
them. Normal and natural don't mean right.
Sometimes people act without realizing
that they are hurting their children.
That is why we are here.
How we do it
Do you feel anxious before you call your ex? Nervous
that the slightest thing could lead to an outburst?
With S.P.E.A.K., you don’t have
to worry anymore – Just call us. We will call
your ex and work things out.
Your S.P.E.A.K. facilitator is available
to deal directly with you and your ex-spouse in matters
dealing with the children and other agreements made
between the two of you.